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How to Take Charge of Your Life

Are you the kind of person who is easily affected by the weather or other parts of your physical environment? Does a negative...

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How Self-Care Can ‘Sharpen Your Saw’

Imagine trying to cut down a tree with a saw that has rounded teeth, or dicing a dozen tomatoes with a dull blade. You might be...

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How I Found the True Meaning of 'Play’

It’s perhaps never been easier to have fun, but how often do we pause to consider what kind of fun we gravitate to and how it...

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3 Joyful Things to Feast on During Easter

My adult Easters have taken on a pretty predictable rhythm. My husband and I drive three hours to his parents’ house. We go to...

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Worried About Money? Offer Up This Prayer

In the journey of life, we encounter an intricate maze of duties, aspirations, and ambitions. Situated within this array of...

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Prayer Hacks for the ADHD Soul

Prayer is difficult to grasp for anyone. It’s a spiritual practice that can and will look different for each person....

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How I’ve Come to Like Praying Without My Own Words

Words are hard. I might have a master’s degree in communication, but I can fully embody with this sentiment. We all struggle...

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The Outgoing-Introvert’s Survival Guide

While introverts are often typecast as people who are quiet, shy, and prefer to spend their nights sitting at home, those...

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Prayer, Just Like Exercise, Takes Discipline

A few years ago, I moved to a new city to begin a new job. While I welcomed the change of pace, I also found myself a bit...

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How I Dealt with Imposter Syndrome in My Faith Life

A few times every year, I go through my social media platforms, removing various accounts and people I follow if I decide they...

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What is Reparenting — And How Can it Help You?

Do you have parents? Are they human beings? If you answered “yes” to either of these questions, chances are you would benefit...

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Boundaries 101: Creating Space

Ever found yourself trapped in the cycle of waiting for that perennially tardy friend, organizing celebratory events for...

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Podcasts That Will Inspire Successful Resolutions

The new year comes with excitement of a fresh start! “New year, new you!” — right? Most people make resolutions for the new...

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How to Start New Traditions With Your Spouse

One afternoon not long after our wedding, my wife Genevieve and I went to buy our first shared Christmas tree. This felt...

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4 Ways to Cultivate Joy in Our Lives

Unlike feelings of happiness or contentment, which can fluctuate depending on our circumstances, joy is something that we can...

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Why Shopping Shouldn't Be A Hobby

Retail therapy. Ah, two words that caress like a silk Hermès scarf. If you’ve ever heard the siren call of the Target home...

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How I've Learned to Heal From an Imperfect Family

Each year, the holiday season stirs up a myriad of emotions. For some, it is an exciting time of buying presents, seeing...

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Setting Healthy Boundaries for the Holidays

I’m ashamed to admit that the most wonderful time of the year can bring out the worst in me.  The endless parties and other...

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TFW You're Home for the Holidays and Family is Wearing You Down

Does going home for the holidays just … throw you off your game somehow? You’re making efforts toward self-improvement and you...

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How to Create (and Stick to) a Christmas Budget

Christmas is the most wonderful time of the year… until you take a look at your bank statement a few weeks later. It’s not...

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7 Ways to Manage Your Mental Health This Holiday Season

What if we could finish the year strong, instead of stumbling across the finish line? Whether you’re feeling like Buddy the Elf...

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Christmas Gift Ideas for Every Love Language

Each year brings with it an earlier roll out date of peppermint lattes, Christmas radio music, towers of toys and artificial...

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5 Ways to Cope with Loneliness Over the Holidays

When everyone from Starbucks to your niece is reveling in holiday spirit, it’s a tough time to be lonely. You might be dreading...

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Living Alongside Death

Born with cardiac abnormalities, Janelle’s been in and out of hospitals since she was born. While she’s been blessed with...

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"A Great Guiding Light"

When faced with approaching death, where can we find comfort? In preparing for her mother-in-law’s passing, Nicole finds the...

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Why We Should All Practice 'Detachment'

What comes to mind when you hear the term “addiction”? For me, I think of substance abuse, alcohol, and opioids, but I was...

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Why I'm Trying to Live Authentically On- and Offline

We are taught to impress at such a young age. As a child, did your parents nudge you to share how you got good grades on your...

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Why You Need a Life Advisory Board (Beyond Your BFFs)

As I approached my mid-twenties, I wasn’t sure what I wanted to do next with my career. I enjoyed my work as a high school...

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This Form of Prayer Can Help Center Yourself

For the past few years, I’ve been seeing a wonderful counselor. I sought therapy because I felt like I was being pulled apart...

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How I Learned to 'Just Talk' to God

We’ve all heard about how important prayer is to growing in your relationship with God, but there’s something about talking to...

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How I Learned to Be Emotionally Open with God in Prayer

When I was a kid, I used to get rosary anxiety. Picture 10-year-old me in a 15-passenger homeschooler van with all my friends...

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How to Pray if You're New to It

Do you feel like your spiritual life could use a little more….well…life? Let’s face it, in the midst of our busy lives, it’s...

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3 Ways to Maximize Your Mentor's Expertise

I’m fortunate to have been mentored in many settings. I simply wouldn’t be where I am without those experiences. Not every...

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10 Bingeworthy Nonfiction Reads

There are few things I love more than stepping through the heavy front doors of my local bookstore carrying a stack of new...

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3 Ways Reading Books Can Save Your Life

We know that reading is good for us — so why aren’t we reading more? According to the Pew Research Center, more people are not...

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Start Your Morning With Inspiration

I am a big believer in starting my day with something inwardly uplifting before I join the raucous call of the outer world that...

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Staying Joyful in a World that Glorifies Stress

This past November, the American Psychology Association released their annual “Stress in America” report. The results are...

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How to Start (and Sustain) a New Prayer Practice

Historically, I have never had much of a prayer practice. I was accustomed to reciting prayers at mealtimes and seeking God’s...

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Those Struggling with Religion vs. God

According to the most recent surveys of religion in America, somewhere between a fourth and a third of Americans describe...

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How Resting on Sundays Can Transform Your Perspective

There is nothing more satisfying than putting a checkmark next to an item on my to-do list. As nerdy as it sounds, it’s a...

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Catholicism Can Be Weird — Maybe That’s the Best Part?

In fifth or sixth grade, my school took us to see a dead saint. The body of St. John Neumann lies beneath a church that rises,...

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Why Is Forgiveness Important?

Forgiveness is good for you. According to the Mayo Clinic, it can lead to improved self-esteem, a stronger immune system, lower...

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3 Ways to Fight Consumerism by Living Simply

Whenever I get into a particularly busy season of life — like exam week, interview season, or when I’m tackling a huge project...

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How Meta-Emotions Can Escalate Conflict in Your Marriage

We were both standing in our kitchen. I made a gesture as if I was about to speak. My husband waited, but the words felt stuck...

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Why Is Forgiveness Important?

Forgiveness is good for you. According to the Mayo Clinic, it can lead to improved self-esteem, a stronger immune system,...

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How to Make Conflict Constructive for Your Marriage

“Have you ever read The Brothers Karamazov?” I asked my husband. “No, I don’t think so.”  “Let’s go buy a couple of paperback...

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Why Date Nights are Important After You're Married

Dating someone can be so exciting — your weekends are full of plans, adventures, and outings as you hit up movies, wine...

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What We Might Be Missing When We Think About Chastity

Where do we turn for wisdom about our sexuality?  On the one hand, applying any sort of guardrails to our sex drive calls to...

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The Privilege of Fatherhood

Terry recently became a new father. He also works as a teacher and tries to make an impact in his community through his social...

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A Newlywed's #1 Tip for a Strong Marriage

One year into marriage, one piece of marital advice from my bridal shower has stuck with me above all others: always try to...

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Why a Spiritual Director Just Might Be What You Need

I never thought I’d have a spiritual director. Now that I’ve benefited from conversations with one, here’s why I think everyone...

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How to Use “Cues” to Form Intentional Habits

I was recently sharing with a group of friends how frustrated I am that I cannot sustain new habits. It seems that no matter...

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Hate Your Job? Questions To Help You Move Forward

It’s hard when work is hard. As a career coach for people looking to be happier and more fulfilled at work, I see how career...

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Saints for the Ordinary Times of a Marriage

We pay a lot of attention to the big points in our married life such as our wedding day and anniversaries — but what about the...

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5 Ways We Can Find Proof of God’s Existence

Have you ever found yourself wondering if God exists? More precisely, wondering if there’s a way to know God exists without...

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I Used a Daily Reflection for a Month — Here’s How it Changed Me

I’ve never had a very consistent prayer practice, but I challenged myself last year to use a daily journal. As it turns out, it...

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Why It’s Okay if You’re in a Spiritual Slump Right Now

When was the last time you really felt close to God? If you’d asked me that question a year or so ago, I would have struggled...

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How Fitness Can Help Your Prayer Life

I’ve come a long way in building a regular fitness routine that is keeping my body healthy and strong. Seeing the benefits of...

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How to Start Praying Daily

Practices that increase our awareness, mindfulness, and resilience are incredibly useful tools when it comes to managing stress...

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The Secret to Praying With Icons

In my high school history classroom, one wall was adorned with striking yet peculiar wooden plaques. During Mr. Medeiros’s...

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A Practical Guide to Praying for Others

I once heard stand-up comedian/author Jennifer Fulwiler say, “What if you are the answer to someone’s prayer?” In other words:...

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What Good are “Thoughts and Prayers” Anyway?

I received a text a while back with some terrible news: an acquaintance of mine had died in his sleep at the age of 26. It’s...

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How to Nurture Your Marriage Through a Pandemic

Back in 2016, memes started flying about how this was the worst year in recent memory. (I’ll wait for you to stop laughing.)...

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8 Saints You’ll Want Interceding for Your Love Life

Maybe you’re in a bit of a dry dating spell. Maybe your heart is breaking. Or, maybe you just want to see eye-to-eye with your...

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Meet the First ‘Working-Mom’ Saint

“I would not be here if I was not loved so much,” said Dr. Gianna Emanuela Molla at a 2017 luncheon. It’s true of all of us,...

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Why 2021 is the Perfect Year to Look to St. Joseph

This pandemic has been an experience of love and resilience amid turmoil and uncertainty, which has prompted me to think often...

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5 Lessons Learned in 5 Years of Marriage

Research shows that nearly 20 percent of couples get a divorce within the first five years of marriage — and that was before we...

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How To Utilize the Superpower of Habits

Routines and habits ought to be a part of everyone’s lifestyle. How often have you thought ‘if only I could stop time’ or ‘if...

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How I Am Taking Ownership of My Faith Life

There comes a point when the course of our lives falls into our own hands. For the large majority, this shift begins taking...

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What An Imaginative Prayer Experience Taught Me

I was on a retreat as an undergraduate when I first prayed with Scripture using my imagination. The experience opened up a...

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Things To Do To Help Find Your Calling

Whether you’re a college junior or well into your career, most of us will get to the point in our lives where we ask ourselves,...

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How To Make The Most of Advent

We inhabit a world that prizes getting what we want as quickly as possible. Who isn’t in awe of Amazon Prime’s magical powers...

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This Saint Found Peace During Quarantine — So Can We

Our family vacation fell through this year. Our hotel booking had to be rescheduled due to COVID-19 restrictions, but the...

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What It Means to Live Without Fear

When he was elected pope in the fall of 1978, Pope St. John Paul II came out on the balcony over St. Peter’s square and the...

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How I Learned To Just Talk To God

We’ve all heard about how important prayer is to growing in your relationship with God, but there’s something about talking to...

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Saints in Your Corner If You Have Anxiety

Racing thoughts. Muscle tension. Fatigue. Restlessness. Worry. These are all common signs of anxiety and to some degree,...